It’s fair to say that most people know Nike and SHM here. We started our findom journey on Owned and we’ve shared many of our highlights on the way, mainly through wording on tributes and targets .
We’ve continued to develop our findom relationship over the past 10 months or so, trying all sorts of different things. Ultimately all of them have been fun, mainly because we communicate well, set expectations and make sure we are both happy and comfortable with whatever it is we plan.
This week marks something slightly different. With the end of our Big target in site, we have been discussing what to try next. As ever, being creative together is always good fun. I love discussing with the boss new ideas and things that look to the future be demonstrate loyalty and commitment. It keeps things fresh and fun.
After some careful consideration , we are stepping things up once again by continuing to infuse findom into our day to day lives. We are going to try Total Power Exchange (or TPE) on finances for one week. In summary this basically means that I hand over a week’s wages to the Boss and have to ask him for money whenever I might need it. He the decides whether or not that request is needed / essential, or whether it’s a luxury that I should forego for the sake of him, because at the end of the week, any money left over from the wages will be kept by him.
So apart from a pending phone call to finalise a couple of minor points and boundaries, we are all set to go. How am I feeling? Excited ? Yes! Nervous ? Yes! . Will we enjoy the dynamic and power exchange, enhancing our findom relationship? Or will I throw my toys out the pram because I’ve seen a top I like, beg the boss to buy it and he says no? I’ll admit I like to treat myself, and I know what I want when I see it, so this is going to hit very differently! It will certainly feel strange having to ask for basics- money for the train to work , lunch , drinks with friends… what will the boss say? And how will I react?
The control excites me a lot. Let’s find out from Sunday . What I do know is , that if I can do this with anyone , then it’s definitely my owner SHM. Watch this space and wish us luck boys 🔥
A sharing of some more personal thoughts and feelings. Findom and
me, how, why and after!A little about me & own experiences so
far, A few of you asked. Time for me to reveal a bit and be a
little more intimate than the eternal smiling, always positive and
in a good mood concierge of the chat! As for ever ; forgive my
English & enjoy trying to guess what I mean,
As for sex ; my findom practises & attitude started quiet young ! 7Yo, exactly, everyday around 10 am ! As a teenager I believed in the power of young lads & was looking for them to protect me from the older bad bullying boys. Young & already bad behaving doms I guess !
As an older teenager
I discovered naked men (live) & switched my love for candies to
love for dicks & sex!
I discovered real findom when I was about 20yo.
No more giving cookies but giving money to a man I lliked & wanted to please. I have had some fun & gsome reat connections on those old Yahoo Groups where many doms had their Group, their pics & fans ? I remember 2 very well ; My favourite now on here as : All for GodMasterArchMasterArch, He had such a yahoo group with the hottest male soles pics ever,
I've been asking him to upload those on OF but I didn’t yet succeed !
Came Twitter time with again several doms I got to know & made
connections with, Should I mention I often ended serving those men.
one day while checking what had been posted I saw a dom’s
account His tweets were simultaneously similar but different from the
other doms and their tweets,
He had some
interesting things posted comparing to the casual Twitter dom.
I
must admit that his pics were just as interesting to look at,
He
posted a link to some owned fags thing wich I found weird & not nicedisturbing,
I had heard that name too many times in the past & not exactly in an enjoyable way, Being on Twitter I also met some hot black American guy I started to chat with & soon started to serve,
We exchanged messages about everyday, Ask Slave ; my English may be bad, I do love to write,
I was serving this
hot black man while looking and thinking about this other white dom.
His tweets were simultaneously similar but different from the other
dominants and their tweets !
It took about a year before
I dared to send this dom a message! It may not be very visible but I’ve always been rather shy, careful
and the kind of guy who try not to disturb. My education, I guess,
I'm not the type to want to impose myself neither! Especially not
when I care about someone,
Having read that this owned fags
link was leading to a Master/ sub site, we : (the black dom &
myself) decided to register, It took a days to see how the site
worked& what’s to do on it as how to do it. We tried things
out & tested others. we decided to test that stable option.
I
was there for a few days & as far as I remember; I paid that dom
to leave that stable after a few days
That stable thing &
giving up control was nothing for me at that time,.He wasn’t
neither the right dom to do such things with,
He’s still a
member on OF but doen’t log’in no more.
While being on OF,
I got in touch with member : yellow bandit, He old me about his
target record. Several targets running at the same time yet having
many targets running simultanimy. For several doms, That game
sounded fun! I met Master Pete on the chat & started on :
targets games with many, many doms, Too many doms actually but it
was fun & it still is a good fun time to remember.
For those who should want : you can read about those targets & rounds on Sir MasterPete profile & on mine. I basically would do a round 3 & 4 but it’s too expensive. About £500 per round; is a fun but expensive game!
I will rather keep
that money to play with one single dom the way most subs do,
At
that time I met & started making a connection with an exquisite,
wonderful cruel hung man with massive balls, a beautiful voice &
a humour to die for, A man who has been burning his kitchen a few
times while trying to cook!
An international beloved sub member
who was to become a lifetime friend. By now & unfortunately for
him he’s known as My Cutie Pie!
B efore I continue; an
important detail without too much importance ; For those who
didn’t yet know: Slave as has Stan & “the cat”. This
isn’t a French expression I tried to translate, it’s the way he
calls his cat! A cat bitch & dog Stan who became famous in chat.
A new findom chapter, I met (SHM (or traighthungmaster) (here on OF)!
Daily messages on Twitter wich was fun & nice, We didn't really talk about deep & important things but it was nice to log'in & see I had a message from the dom I had fun with & was serving. Those messages weren’t just to reply question but a few words he wrote spontaneously wich is lovely,
We have been playing quiet a lot, He's an expert in target titles & setting games, We had lots of fun until we, sort of decided the fun was not there no more.Many have been asking about; being called enslaved on a owned site & not being owned !
Why, how come, is the name appropriated,
I guess I’m just unownable, a demanding daydreamer and not to forget : Slave has not yet started building his stable !
Third target I am completing for Slave but he’s too busy being great to work on building a stable, , Being that good ain’t easy, I will p robably have to spend another winter outdoor at his door while he will set more & more targets on me !
you may wonder, what
happened on Twitter & the 2 doms I liked !The black American
dom still posts some scandalously hot naked pics but I don't serve
him no more, as for the other dom, there’s about nothing to say
except maybe : he still doesn’t tweet much!
Slave aka
Cutie love Pie has ever called me a passionate sub into findom &
serving! I guess I used to be that way .To be honest I’m not that passionated no more. As for many subs, I
have been dreaming, wishing & hoping. I have been surprised,
positively and negatively, I was disappointed and saddened but
overall; I don’t regret nothing & won’t waste time on
complaining,
I know many personal things about many of you & a very few know very personal things about me.
All I can is I will never share anything I am being told unless you should ask me to tell.
As for myself; things are not always as they seem.
For those who should wonder; yes you can message me everywhere you want whatever the place,
As you have seen;
same name, same profile pic,
I had dreams and desires, I had
ideals and a certain idea of things.
I'm no longer sure that this is still the case.
I have always preferred to be honest and say what I think and feel. In my opinion, the best reason to build things, to evolve and in any case : to remain faithful to ourselves and our principles.
I really enjoy meeting you daily in the chat so for those who don't have Twitter, my Skype or me email adress ; don't leave without saying goodbye & telling me how I can t reach you.
I lost several friends because of not having any way to get to them, That, it's so sad & so stupid,
At this point I don't really know where I stand anymore. I joined a site for doms to end loving subs.
I have shared & had more fun & honest, sincere times with subs as I ever had with a dom.
I do like to tease & scratch a dom from time to time though, I don’t believe in superior & inferior living beings, Everyone is superior or inferior than another being I do understand the idea behind the scene & game but I believe in equality. It’s not about how many we can or want to give & it’s definitly not about making money, To me it’s almost not even about money, It’s about a connection & relation with someone who makes your days nicer, naturally , A dom making your days nicer ? That will naturally lead to wanting to please this dom & make his life better, nicer & greater in whatever possible way . Some subs likes to be mistreated, some doms will want to exploit, hurt or exploit someone’s feelings or finances, As long as both feel better with each other
I no longer
have any idea what I'm looking for and what I really truly want.
What I noticed above all is that I have lost my spontaneous motivation which was enormous.
Or better said, I no longer really have motivation or expectations for findom.
Whether your ego is small, medium, large or exaggeratedly very large, we are all unique and O; horrible truth ; no one is irreplaceable. I advise you all to complete your profile carefully.
Saying what and who you would like and looking for i’s is a great start to getting it/ .
@BS, Gucci Nike, frenchbottomslut, Jeffie, servus & other owned subs; I love to see & read how happy you are with & thanks your to Master. Sorry for other owned subs I might have forgotten. See you on the chat doms & sub friends
I'm Tee! I've been here a couple of months now, it's time I opened up a little. More commonly known as DarthTee in the kink community, (due to my obsession with the dark side of the starwars universe)
I've always been a dominant person, when I was a young lad, and joined the scouts, it took me two weeks for the leader of the troop to make me a junior leader, this pattern hasn't changed. I'm still dominating in life (very humbly might I add). So far completed 19 years in a career path that rewards the most fittest, smartest and ambitious people. My job is hard, I've done things most of you would of only heard about on the TV or podcasts. it has most definitely shaped me to be the man I am today!
I'm into all sorts of kink and BDSM, I regularly attend events in the UK, some which I photograph at as well! However this writing I want to focus on FinDom.
FinDom allows me to tap into a person you won't see on the outside world (even when I'm at events). With findom I can satisfy the megalomaniac side of me that wants to feel better than everyone else, more deserving due to the nature of what I do, or the rewards I've gotten from it. It allows me to tap into the power hungry prick I've spent years keeping away from every other aspect of my life. Even with this, everything I do is done with consent, you won't see that side of me unless you consent to it, yeah I can be a sadistic nightmare, but only if you ask.
I've build up a strong reputation within my community, one which I intend to transfer into this one, a very unique, lively and generous bunch of people.
Q. Why don't you have a honourific in your name Tee like sir, or master?
A. Words don't mean a lot if you can't back them up with actions, I'd rather prove to you what I am.
However the edge I have over my peers is my secret urge to control slaves. Not only do I receive pleasure from humiliating my slaves, mind fucking them to the point where I hold a chain to their brain. I also am able to live a comfortable life whilst being able to allocate appropriate time to my degree, thanks to the amount slaves that have been serving me with their wallets. They understand money is better in my pocket than in theirs.
My friends joke about how I can afford to live such a lavish lifestyle whilst keeping up with rent and even a £700 MOT fail. If only they knew the truth…
It was inevitable.
Finding a Dom is hard enough. You must bravely fight through
the barbed wire of greed, then avoid the simplistic middle finger poking you in
the eye, and don’t forget the yawningly boring and deeply depressing: “Hey fag
serve me”. Of course, you must double check verification, analyse images which have
been digitally enhanced beyond belief, but that’s just the start of the climb up the mountain of service.
You struggle forwards, wondering what the Dom’s motives might be, and you
analyse their words, check the details on their profile and then, to your
horror you discover that you aren’t reading the words of a Dom but the words of
HAL9000’s cheeky second cousin, ChatGPT!
Dear friends, dear SUBS, spend time before spending tips,
and if HE sounds too good to be true, step away and start again.
This BLOG was created by ChatGPT…
Bound to a chair, gagged, made to look at the computer screen as Sir loads up OwnedFags on my login. He sends a pillory game request to my account and shows it to me - it's so high - unlimited - Im begging into my gag but Sir accepts the game on my behalf.
All I can do is watch for hours as the comments come in and the total builds and builds...
Why do you think you can just plunder in without due care and attention?
You might get a quick tribute through being so reckless, but for any sustainability the dom needs to nurture and encourage a sub boy.
Doms may think they hold the control, but subs can withdraw it any time if they are not feeling the same way.
In conclusion, doms have the ultimate control when subs allow them to.
If a sub decides to withdraw that, the dom should respect and work to get it back.
I’ve been controlling since before I was even legal… I’ve just turned 21 but still have a hairless, defined and clear skinned body.
I’m looking for a sub that wants to be mindfucked like never before, give me control of their life, humiliate them for what they are. An it. A slave.
If you’re obedient, submissive and a waste of space. You know what to do.
My PMs are open
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