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Posted by MSteele135

OK.. Now as many of you will know, I am not always the most introspective of men. However I recently tripped across a Podcast that has me thinking.

The Hierarchy Podcast is an analysis of the gay BDSM community, although it has to be said that little Sammy boy doesn't always think too highly of our little kingdom within that world. He does however speak about the different qualities he perceives in different Alphas.

I guess I'm wondering what you all think, and if there are other Podcasts worth listening to

You find me in my Yoga Metaverse...
Posted by mickeylove319

I bet you would love to see me as a NFT you dumb faggot pay me what you would buy a NFT for humiliate fags cashslave serve me for you will never even be able to about to my genius not even in the Meta verse you are a jpeg I am a png a king. Perfect in this world, well in any world because I am superior. The things you will do for a straight man like me no matter how much you’ll never get dick serving me. I am a Diamond in the rough. In this metaverse you found me doing my yoga stretching naked while my cock is talking to me about some other ideas. My balls are full and bouncing to spread my seed. I feel softly touching my cock taking control of my senses. I'll do one more stretch to loosen my hamstrings and give you some close viewing of my hairy hole first. I begin striking my cock back and forth you wish you could touch it but you never will. It's going to take me almost a minute before I'm finished ejaculating. You say you never have seen a cock so huge in your life and I tell you that is because I am a diamond in the rough. My penis throbbing hard as I stare at you and you sweat and wish you could just get a taste. I tell you to stay back or else they're will be hell to pay. As I begin to climax on near my end you shake uncontrollably and don't know why I finish and you ask if you could lick the semen off the ground and I deny your request for you are a scum of the earth not worth to even be in my presence. I clean up my mess and I a god among you faggots men leave and have you begging for more.

Humanatm walletdrain $end paypiggy faggot 


📰 So a bit of an update for 2022
Posted by MasterOfAll

Since the start of the year we have updated our backend server and software bringing around a 5% performance increase, not much but every little helps, right?

We have also launched polls which will hopefully bring new game and interaction opportunity. The polls will be tweaked over the next week or so to bring a couple new additions and fixes.

Next we will be bringing an overhauled messaging experience, adding new features such as group chats.

After that has launched we will be going back over all the current site functionality to bring improvements and updates to these, providing additional features and fixes that have been asked for.

From around June we plan to start developing and adding Web3 features.

Owned Fags has always been at the front of innovation when it comes to findom and we have no intention of slipping behind.

Web3 and DeFi is no doubt the next technological revolution and we plan to fully embrace it. More on that coming later in the year.

As always, thank you for your support.



You asked for it
Posted by DrDonkeyDick

A few years ago DrDonkeyDick was approached by a very engaging couple and was asked if I would be willing to fuck her in front of sissysub. This attractive young couple had dabbled in the swinger scene and had a fantasy of watching her take a large cock. They had heard rumors of Dr.DonkeyDick's monster swinging between my legs. Like a gentleman, I agreed. After some texting back and forth I found myself a BW3 meeting over a cold beer. She was raring to go, and I could tell he was nervous. 45 minutes later and I was following them back to their house. 

A few minutes later we were upstairs. Sissycuckold went into another room and emerged dressed in women's lingerie. I dropped my pants to reveal my monster soft cock. She gasped, said FUCK, and he stood there motionless. Like a real faggot he ended up eating my cum out of his wife's sweet pussy. He left the room the second time we fucked. I received a text from her thanking me. I asked how they were doing and she said not well, that while she loved it, he was having a hard time handling it. 

Something about watching his wife's sweet hole get destroyed by a monster cock was just too much for him to handle... 

I often get asked am I willing to let a faggot suck my cock, or would I be willing to destroy a faggot's ass. The real question you should ask is if you can afford it.... 

An ODE to all subs
Posted by mdomdomm

Whenever you enter the findom world, a lot of things seem so direct and strict. Like if no money is around nothing is aroung.

Entering the findom world is a way of understanding the dynamics of power, and how submission and domination is what makes the earth do rounds.

When a dom has no sub, is like a planet missing his sun to make the moves, it stills exists, it's strong in it's essence, but the lack of light makess it really cold.

In findom, more than anything, what makes the world goes round are the subs: without them, doms are just animals within cages.

When a sub leaves
Posted by Switch

One thing that I wasn’t prepared for was losing a sub. 

It wasn’t recent, it happened a couple of months ago. We’d developed a strong relationship that transcended findom and kink. It moved beyond the traditional understanding of that relationship, and was a friendship. I think we became a part of each other’s lives - we discussed things (often without detail, and sometimes fudging the truth) happening in our lives. We followed each other’s story over the course of months as major changes happened. We shared things with each other about the scene, about the people, about things we found ridiculous, we found funny, we found hot. 

It was the first time I found a true connection with a sub, and found someone I could communicate with in a real way. I learned a lot from him and discovered my strengths through his feedback. 

He moved on. He left OwnedFags, decided to focus on his life outwith the kink. And that’s fine, it’s the circle of life.


I just didn’t expect that so far down the line, I’d miss him still. We need to prepare ourselves for the (sometimes) inevitable truth that our relationships might not last as long as we like. I debated for a long time speaking about it, wondered if it was silly - the man’s not dead, I just don’t have a forwarding address. 

Let’s be more open about what our subs mean to us. There’s a lot of bravado, a lot of wariness about being close to the people we speak to on an often daily basis, but they form such a large part of who we are here - the ‘us’ that we cultivate. How can we not miss them when they go? 

Just some reflections (aided by gin, admittedly). 

Life update post covid
Posted by Akoor

Hello Sirs and fags

Happy new year to everyone.

Around Christmas'21, I got diagnosed with covid. I had to be hospitalized for almost 10 days and was in the ICU for 2 days. My finances are in a wreck because of it and I'm in massive medical debt.

Because of that, I'll be unable to participate in any financial activities here for the next 2-3 months until I can clear off the debt. I'll be active here but mostly as a passive observer.

Please stay safe and stay indoors. COVID is no joke. I'm all right now but I can still feel the aftereffect.

Posted by AntonSub

After a number of years in the FinDom scene I find myself feeling lost. I have gained much experience over the years and like to think I can spot the people to avoid vs the people who are worth exploring something with. I have served a number of Masters, both long term and short term and have found those experiences enjoyable and fulfilling for the most part. In most recent times however, I do not seem to be able to stick to one thing or one person. I have talked to Masters who seem compatible, engaged, tributed, and then lost interest very quickly. This must be frustrating for Masters, but it is just as frustrating for me especially as I do not really understand what is happening.

Of course, this could be connected to other things. The current upheaval brought about by Covid for example or something else lurking in my subconscious.

I wonder if anyone else has experienced this kind of shift in behaviour and how they dealt with it.  Does it pass or has it become a more permanent state?

10 Signs You Are A Toxic Dom
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

10 Signs You Are A Toxic Dom

by DorianTheAlpha

I just wrote one of these about toxic subs. I often hear from subs that it is a tricky thing to criticize those on the dominant half of this community. All too often, those comments are dismissed or even derided, because they are just "slaves", and should shut their trap. So, to that end, as an olive branch of sorts, I've considered some things I have seen firsthand from the worst among Alphas both here and elsewhere in financial domination and kink. If you are regularly guilty of these, you are a toxic Dom. I have done more than one of these, and more than once. I have certainly had my toxic moments, especially early on while cocky and still learning the ropes. Recognize your faults and your failures, and use this as a guide to not only be better as a Master to your submissives, but as a member of this community.

1. Doxxing & Hostility 

This one is the same; it cuts both ways. No Dominant entrusted with their sub’s information should ever reveal those details, or act negligently with it. True b*******l is a crime (extortion). The idea of ruin/homewrecking fantasies is acceptable when practiced responsibly and consensually, but all too often that kink is done wrong, and puts real lives in harm’s way. If you cannot dominate responsibly and without hostility, then leave. That isn’t power, that’s pathetic. There is no place for that here on this site or anywhere in findom & kink communities.


2. Poaching

Don’t poach subs. Just don’t. It is natural for some subs to want a new Master over time, discover a better fit, etc. These are all relationships at the end of the day. The line can sometimes be blurred, I will admit. But poaching is poaching. And you know when you are doing it. I’ll define it here for those still unclear: do not ever attempt to seek tribute, submission, or other such favours from an owned sub (as defined on this site by a lock symbol with a Master’s stable to its name). Always speak with that Master first and get their explicit permission if you sense a supplemental fit with a sub, which happens plenty often. Co-ownerships, loan dynamics, and session play are all healthy parts of an owned sub’s fluid servitude with their Master’s approval. Keywords: with their Master’s approval.

3. Disrespect

I’ve been guilty of this one. We all have tempers. Some more than others. There are those here who despise me (and I can be a bit much at times). Regardless: treat your fellow Alphas with respect. Treat subs, within the framework of kinky banter and bdsm, with basic human decency when it matters. Disrespect sucks the fun out of this community, and at the end of the day that is what this is: a community.

4. lllegality

Again, this cuts both ways as with subs: do not suggest illegal acts or substances with your slaves, ever. Especially do not do so on this website, where MOA works so hard to create a safe playground for our collective deviance. People can lose their jobs, their families, their lives. It sounds extreme, but those who have been around long enough know that sadly it happens to even the most experienced among us when things get out of hand, even for only a moment. That’s all it takes. Keep it legal, at all times.

5. Rejection

Much of domination is tied to one’s ego. Success feeds into it. Tribute and luxury lead to the expectation of a certain lifestyle. The comforts in having servants for your every whim & desire is a treat. However, if/when subs decide to leave: that is normal. Most dynamics do not last forever. Most dynamics are single sessions, or short bouts of servitude. A seldom few last longer, for months or years. Learn to handle rejection. Better yet, embrace it, even if that means accepting you don’t cater to everyone. I am the farthest thing from a skinboss, or a gay sex-driven Alpha. I provide an allure to those who want the Master that I am, and the domination that I offer. Simple: subs can say “no”. Deal with it.

6. Burnout 

This might not fit the strictest definition of toxicity, but exhausted Masters tend to be the most impatient, sloppy with their approach, and quick to frustration with their subs. Know yourself, and know when it’s time to take a step back, to rest up. Everyone has their off days. Avoid burnout. We are at our best with all things in balance.

7. Pandering

This, while rare, is the bane of so many Masters’ existence: do not pander to toxic subs. When you indulge topping from the bottom (see my previous post on toxic subs if unclear here), you exacerbate the issue. Whiny twats ought to be disposed for the whiny twats that they are. Nothing more. Deep pockets cause Alphas to abandon their principles for a quick cash grab. Don’t. This is supposed to be fun, kink-driven power exchange. Some might disagree here; say it’s all about the money, no matter what. I say, “it matters what”. And the money is often what makes this fun, when done right. But lowering yourself to a sub’s every whim is not financial domination, and it is the farthest thing from dominant. If anything, it’s supplicant.

8. Sanctimony

The irony of this point following the last is not lost on me. All the same, don’t be a sanctimonious prick. We all generally agree how power exchange & financial domination happens. Some don’t. Some differ on the little things. Just because you see a dynamic occurring in a way distinct from your view of correct etiquette or approach, does not make you the grand arbiter of kink. And if you still feel compelled to comment, then do so kindly & constructively. No one likes a self-righteous absolutist. The range of perspectives & practices is part of why this place is so great. Let’s keep it that way.

9. Maturity

There is a reason that “ch-ild” is a banned word here. Don’t be one. This builds upon the notion of being able to handle submissive rejection; you will have plenty of conflict and friction in practicing all types of domination. Those who have succeeded here longest & most triumphantly continue to do so because they know who they are, they conduct themselves accordingly, and with utmost maturity. Conversely, the worst subs and least admired Doms often earn that reputation quickly because they stir up trouble and are among the least mature here.

10. Patience

This one is two-fold, and many may not agree with my second point here, but I suppose that is why blog’s are fun. Feel free to comment, especially if you disagree. Patience is key for all Masters, but especially Alphas new to the game. Have patience with your domination. Be patient with finding your tone, your brand, your following. Take it all as it comes, and learn from it. It’s easy to think you know it all on day one, or that you will skyrocket to the top. I’ve covered tips for new Masters in another post. 

That said, there is a patience specific to new subs that matters for this community. Now, it is hard to tell when a sub is genuinely new (and not some relapsing worm). And some Masters still don’t care, which is normal and acceptable. Some Masters do not accept conversation prior to a show of resolve (usually tribute). I’d humbly argue that, to an extent, productive introductory conversation is part of what makes findom thrive at its best. So, if you so choose, have patience as a Dom. More often than not, when you learn to judge sub’s with some intuition, it pays off. Literally.

As always, I hope to see your comments and reactions below. To my dominant readers, stay powerful gents.

Pillories, Python, & Lovense
Posted by crcl2048

So, in the effort to increase the fun & suspense of a pillory, I've written a small script that can connect Lovense toys to an ongoing pillory, allowing them to react to likes and comments as they come in.

The script is available here on Github:

The execution is pretty simple, you need to enable 'Game Mode' via the Lovense Remote app -- (this entire process has to be done by the sub on their local network -- so the PC running the script/executable and the phone with the app connected to the toys need to be connected to the same router).

Once that has been done, you can run the script via Python (or you can download the standalone executable here: and provide the IP address & Port for the Lovense Remote app and a web link to the pillory page (obtain via the 'share' button). 

The script is pretty simple: It sets a low, default level of continuous vibration on the toy to remind the sub of their position and the situation they have come to find themselves in, enough to cause frustration and dripping, but not more than that. The script then monitors the ongoing pillory for new likes and comments and will perform more intense actions as they come in.

The actions it performs are adjustable; you can see in the script how they're configured -- and if I'm permitted here, a small rant on how *unhelpful* Lovense's documentation of their API is. You can find it here: There are many enigmatic and disconnected examples, no description of the endpoints or the acceptable parameters (outside of what is documented in those examples), and a bunch of 'magic' strings only defined in the examples! Maybe it gets better if you register as a developer. Still, auto-generating a swagger page from your code is very easy, and it's frustrating they didn't do this.

Anyway, the actions are adjustable; it's all contained within the PilloryWatcher class (the private methods __VibrateLike, __VibrateComment, and the private field __DefaultVibration). But the script should be usable as-is. 

If you're planning on using this, maybe consider a small site donation as well. The script will be poking the servers as it's running to collect updated like and comment counts (180 requests over an hour, assuming a pillory with no activity, it blocks while sending commands as well, so nothing too extreme, but it can help out).

If you have questions, don't hesitate to contact me, and given this will be active the next time I'm in the pillory, I just ask that you be kind :)


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