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Submit update
Posted by MasterOfAll

It’s been a while since I communicated on the status of Submit, so I wanted to take some time to explain what’s happening.


Submit is still very much in development, and it is still the intention that Owned will retire and everything will move over to the new site.


Submit is being built on completely new technology to Owned and as such it took a bit to plan and get started, but that is out of the way and actual development has been in full swing for a while now.


It’s become evident in the development though that getting Submit ready within 6 months is simply unachievable. I was a bit naive to think that I could rebuild something completely in that time when it took 10 years of active development to get where it is now.


Since starting the building of Submit there have also been other things pop up that have halted development, the main one being having to find a new card processor. That took up a lot of my time, and if im honest put my head in a bad place and I just couldn’t face working on the site.


I have also had personal issues going on taking up my time, as well as social commitments.

 

Going back to the card processor issue, if it taught me anything it’s not to have all my eggs in one basket, so I have also been splitting my time more onto other projects and diversifying my work.


As I said, Submit is still being developed, it’s just not being worked on full time like it was before.


So, what does this mean?


Well, I’ve now taken the view that Submit will be “ready when it’s ready”.


I will continue to work on it, and it will be launched, I just won’t be putting a date on when; it should still be sometime this year though. I’m not going to be putting myself under any pressure or imposing self-inflicted time limits. Owned is still operational and works fine, so there is no rush to get Submit finished.


In the coming months I will start to provide limited access to a few users so that I can gather feedback and help with bug testing.


Thank you,

MoA

AussieStr8Dom chat
Posted by AussieStr8Dom

Hi subs/fags,


I always feel like the best place to start any dom/sub relationship is with a get to know you message system. Get in touch on here or we can move it to my skype. Each question will require a small token tribute but its always a great way to establish a connection and see if a sub is geneuine. Also great for the lonely subs out there who really need to chat. Looking forward to your messages and starting a slow controlled relationship and drain for your masters benefit. Everytime a new question/message "dings" in my inbox folder my 9' cock throbs a little bit harder. Looking forward to hearing from you soon subs ;)


AussieStr8Dom

Rubbermaster is looking for new gimps
Posted by RUBBERTRAINER

Rubbermaster from Cologne has room in his slave stable again. I will milk you, control and keep you chaste and form you my rubber gimp. You finally want to follow your true destiny and spend the rest of your life as my paypig and gummigimp and spend your existence as a crawling and suffering nothing? Ich werde dich in deinem Keuchheitsgürtel wegsperren und dich und deine Geilheit komplett kontrollieren. Ich erwarte deine aussagekräfige Bewerbung für den Platz in meinem Stall.
Domination & Experience
Posted by CBUK

What am I looking for?

That is a great question FootMasterUK, just what are you looking for?

What I am looking for is a sub/slave who has goals, dreams, power, ambition. I am looking for a sub/slave who has a powerful job where he is an Alpha, only to meet up with me and have me take his power away from him and turn him into an owned sub/slave. I would like to meet up with a sub/slave who is into roleplay only for the roleplay to become serious. I would like a sub/slave who will struggle when I bound him, a sub/slave who will plead with me to set him free, a sub/slave who will say "Please, my wallet is in my trouser pocket, take my wallet and empty it of cash/tips" then I keep the sub/slave tied up and we continue our session, developing it further, exploring new avenues of Domination & submissiveness.

I would like a sub/slave who will put as much into the session as what I will and we both get what we want. I have over 10 years experience in kink, was introduced to findom in 2007 I think it was, had a 6 year break due to an EX and came back to findom late 2019, I am always learning new things about kink, and brushing up on old s🩸🗡️s, I have a few fantasies that I have always wanted to do, but for now I am happy to play and I am open to new ideas to improve my kinks and s🩸🗡️s.

My first half of the year with Findom, what can I say...
Posted by Olgg

I've wanted to write this little blog for a long time, but I just couldn't get it started properly. After some time, I still decided to start it with...

Thank you to the entire OwnedFags community for what you have done for me.
Thanks to you, I was able to improve my psychological and financial situation for a long time, I managed to overcome some problems that started to haunt me since the beginning of 2022, I learned a lot and saw what humanity is when they really help and not pretend that they want to help.

And if everything is clear with the financial part, then the psychological part is another level. If a person is broken psychologically, it is almost impossible to help him, it is not a physical pain that passes over time, it is a pain that can be with a person for the rest of his life and will never heals.

A person can break physically, but psychologically remain strong, nothing will stop him, but if it is a psychological injury, then it cannot be treated, it can only be calmed down for a while, like some medicine.  Therefore, many thanks to everyone who helped me in this, your kindness will not be forgotten and will return many times over.

Thanks to OwnedFags.com

I think this is a good start. Back to the blog. Today marks exactly six months since I got acquainted with such a term as findom. Since these six months, almost 5 months, I spent on the OwnedFags.com site, I learned a lot about the very concept of findom, about life related to findom and people who are also in this community. 

I still have a lot to learn, but even in such a short time I learned some factors: 

1) Findom is addictive. Both from the Dom side and from the sub side. During these six months, I did not visit the site only a few times. It's a big world with different people who like what they do, it's almost like a computer game, but in reality. Perhaps the word "game" will be a very rude statement, but there is a grain of truth in it.

2) Many people do not understand the concept of findom. This also applies to everyone in this community. Dom believes that, being Dom, every sub should pay him whatever amount he wants, simply because he was registered as a dominant. Because he's Dom, and that's all. "All the money for me", "his fault", because he wanted it that way, he is not interested in rejection, he considers himself number one, simply because he was born that way... 

FILL IT OUT - there will always be a person who will be better than you in everything you know and know, he will be stronger, he will be better mentally, he will be better intellectually, he will be smarter, he will... No one in this life owes you anything, all people are free and have the right to do what they want. Don't be an asshole, there are a lot of people like you and they think the same. Nothing is free in this world, you have to work hard to get something. If you are interested in money, be smarter, develop a strategy and act so that everyone is satisfied. 

As for the sub, it's practically the same. This is financial domination, no one will fulfill your dirty fantasies for free. You have to pay for what your Dom wants. Do not waste the time of other people who want to make a connection with you. You are not the only one. No one makes you to pay an amount that you cannot repay. Everything has its price, and in financial domination it is one of the key parts. 

And most importantly, findom is a relationship, one-time or long-term, it all depends on the people. Everyone fulfills his role in it and has what he has.
3) Online relationships and real life relationships are a big difference. Everything is clear here, everything is like in life. Online relationships are a fun stage of getting to know each other for a short period of time. But fіndom in real life is already different, different emotions, different relationship, interest and so on...

Unfortunately, I didn't have the opportunity to experience it, but everything is possible.


That's all. 


I hope you understand what I wanted to write. Thanks to everyone who read this post. Have a nice day everyone and be yourself

Slow and steady wins the race
Posted by subjeffie

I won't go back so far as to talk about how snail mail groups worked because it doesn't matter. Technology changes but human nature doesn't. My first online post was on Usenet which I think is still around in some form. I had bdsm fantasies and was looking for someone to tie me up and do whatever he wanted to do with me. Stupid, stupid, stupid. I had no idea about limits and what anything meant. I assumed anyone that was interested would somehow know exactly what was going through my mind.


I said the same naïve things throughout the years as I explored new kinks. 


Fast forward to the present. I joined OwnedFags at the same time I joined other sites looking to fulfill a specific need. I assumed the tip transfer system here was similar to the tips I sent to Men on the video performance sites. Stupid, stupid, stupid! 😂 Age does not guarantee insight or wisdom. Sending 10 tips to a stranger felt like a big deal to me. I did not have good experiences and was 30 minutes away from deleting this account until I took a chance on the one Man who didn't take advantage of me as a newbie. It's unfortunate that we're not still together but I'm still here and learning from my current owner, The MasterOfAll.

Podcast Interview on Findom
Posted by HadrianTemple

The This Is Uncomfortable podcast did an episode about findom and interviewed me as an ethical findom. So if you want to hear some of my thoughts about findom, check it out. (But you won’t hear my voice—I asked them to alter it to protect my job. Very strange to hear my words spoken by a different voice!)


It’s a good, fair introduction to findom—doesn’t sensationalize it and tries to explain it fairly while still admitting some of the problems that can develop. 


https://www.marketplace.org/shows/this-is-uncomfortable-reema-khrais/

The Vicious Circle of self-service
Posted by Maskedmasterbe

We have all seen it many times. After serving a lot of subs experience a huge drop and regret their actions.

It's The vicious circle :

Horny Sub –> A Dom makes the sub’s dick itch –> Send to a Dom –> Climax –> Reality check -> Feeling 💩ty -> Swearing to do it Never again -> Horniness -> Relapse -> Let’s try another Dom -> ….

 

Well Sub. You cannot blame Dom ! Yes he used you, yes he got what he wanted and probably doesn’t’ know at all how to manipulate subs without his social media marketing.

You only got yourself to blame !. Why ?

·         * You send to a Dom you knew nothing about

·         * You just followed your brainless dick

·         * You didn’t have a strategy how to serve properly


The regret comes from the fact you didn’t serve a Dom at all. No you only served yourself. This behaviour is self-destructive.

It is the vicious circle of self-service : a self-serving Sub and a self-serving Dom.


By controlling your urges and submitting to a real Dom with who you build a lasting connection you will find real pleasure and purpose.

Yes you know you need to Serve (your body and min remind you each time). The combination of the need to fulfil your primal urges and your weak brain causes it to go really wrong.

If you want to find happiness you need a real master like me to step in and guide you. Even reprogram you to become focussed, immersed and committed. Single minded devotion ! No more regret, no more confusion. The feeling of belonging to real superior alpha master.

What I enjoy most
Posted by TheTechGuy

Honesty, as they always say, is the best policy. It's something I try to live up to, especially in spaces like this. I'm not the most fit person in here, nor am I the loudest or the most aggressive. Truth be told, I'm a nerd. Damn proud of that too. Always have been and always will be. It's not for everyone, but that's ok. What I do appreciate, and what I like to think I bring to the table, is a willingness to understand and develop a relationship with a sub in order to try to help them become the best sub they can be. Providing them an outlet that they can enjoy, and might not find elsewhere.


I find enjoyment in the building of the relationship between a dom and a sub. Some are eager to jump into the deep end, others need more time. And that's ok. As long as the sub is serious, willing, and dedicated, I am willing to do my part to help build them up, strengthen the relationship, and provide them their end of this pleasure deal. I enjoy seeing subs change and develop over time. Becoming more willing, more eager, enjoying what they do. I enjoy seeing them offer things not because I told them to, but because they WANT to. That's they key part. I WANT them to enjoy serving, I WANT them to enjoy what they do, I WANT them to look forward every day to doing what they do best.


Seeing that, in my opinion, is something that can't be beat. And it makes every tribute that much sweeter, for both sides. If you as a sub do not enjoy sending Send every time, then I have failed you. And I for one do not tolerate failure. So I strive every day to learn more, to grow more, to be a dom that you can be happy and proud to serve. 

Hello subs....you're welcome.
Posted by AussieStr8Dom

Hello subs....you're welcome for this blog. Fags like you don't deserve to view my blog but I guess it's worth it to find one fag that can show some loyalty to me rather than so many fakes that don't understand their true purpose and potential in life. AussieStr8Dom here.........I'm looking forward to connecting with submissive fags from all over. I'm back on here after almost 3 years. Loyalty and service are my 2 big rules and you will always be rewarded with my interaction. I'm still very disappointed that my #1 fag has deciced to end our connection to each other but I'm sure I'll find a better, more obedient, loyal and committed slave. Looking forward to seeing which subs will rise to top and prove loyalty



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