Posted by
Olgg
Findom, short for financial domination, is a niche fetish where individuals derive pleasure or satisfaction from being financially controlled or dominated by another person. While it is important to acknowledge that different individuals may have different preferences and boundaries within the findom community, there are some potential mistakes or risks that people tied to findom may encounter. Here are a few:
1) Financial Irresponsibility: One common mistake is when individuals involved in findom fail to set clear financial boundaries or engage in reckless spending beyond their means. They may become financially unstable or accumulate debt, which can have serious long-term consequences for their overall well-being.
2) Lack of Consent and Boundaries: Consent and clear communication are crucial in any BDSM-related activity, including findom. It's essential for all parties involved to establish and respect boundaries, as well as agree upon limits and expectations. Failure to do so can lead to misunderstandings, emotional harm, or exploitation.
3) Financial Exploitation: Findom relationships should be consensual and based on trust. However, some individuals may take advantage of vulnerable individuals seeking financial domination and exploit them for personal gain. This can involve coercing or manipulating them into providing excessive financial support or engaging in activities they are not comfortable with.
4) Emotional Manipulation: Findom relationships often involve power dynamics, and in some cases, emotional manipulation can occur. Individuals may exploit the emotional vulnerability of those seeking financial domination, using tactics such as guilt, shame, or threats to control their behavior or extract more money. It is crucial to be aware of and avoid such manipulative tactics.
5) Privacy and Security Risks: Engaging in findom often involves sharing personal and financial information with others. There is a risk of this information being mishandled, leading to identity theft, fraud, or other privacy breaches. It's important to exercise caution and only share sensitive information with trusted individuals.
6) Psychological Impact: Findom can have psychological effects on both dominants and submissives. For some, the power dynamics and financial control can lead to a fulfilling and enjoyable experience. However, for others, it may result in feelings of guilt, shame, or anxiety. It's crucial to regularly assess one's emotional well-being and seek support if needed.
It is important to approach findom or any other fetish or kink activity with caution, respect, and open communication. It's advisable to educate oneself about the risks, establish clear boundaries, and ensure that all activities are consensual and mutually beneficial. Seeking guidance from reputable sources, joining supportive communities, or consulting with professionals experienced in BDSM dynamics can help individuals navigate the findom world in a safer and more fulfilling manner.
This is exactly what ChatGPT wrote, and he is right. What do you think about this issue? Write in the comments. Thank you all for your attention, take care and have a nice day
Posted by
Olgg
I've wanted to write this little blog for a long time, but I just couldn't get it started properly. After some time, I still decided to start it with...
Thank you to the entire OwnedFags community for what you have done for me.
Thanks to you, I was able to improve my psychological and financial situation for a long time, I managed to overcome some problems that started to haunt me since the beginning of 2022, I learned a lot and saw what humanity is when they really help and not pretend that they want to help.
And if everything is clear with the financial part, then the psychological part is another level. If a person is broken psychologically, it is almost impossible to help him, it is not a physical pain that passes over time, it is a pain that can be with a person for the rest of his life and will never heals.
A person can break physically, but psychologically remain strong, nothing will stop him, but if it is a psychological injury, then it cannot be treated, it can only be calmed down for a while, like some medicine. Therefore, many thanks to everyone who helped me in this, your kindness will not be forgotten and will return many times over.
Thanks to OwnedFags.com
I think this is a good start. Back to the blog. Today marks exactly six months since I got acquainted with such a term as findom. Since these six months, almost 5 months, I spent on the OwnedFags.com site, I learned a lot about the very concept of findom, about life related to findom and people who are also in this community.
I still have a lot to learn, but even in such a short time I learned some factors:
1) Findom is addictive. Both from the Dom side and from the sub side. During these six months, I did not visit the site only a few times. It's a big world with different people who like what they do, it's almost like a computer game, but in reality. Perhaps the word "game" will be a very rude statement, but there is a grain of truth in it.
2) Many people do not understand the concept of findom. This also applies to everyone in this community. Dom believes that, being Dom, every sub should pay him whatever amount he wants, simply because he was registered as a dominant. Because he's Dom, and that's all. "All the money for me", "his fault", because he wanted it that way, he is not interested in rejection, he considers himself number one, simply because he was born that way...
FILL IT OUT - there will always be a person who will be better than you in everything you know and know, he will be stronger, he will be better mentally, he will be better intellectually, he will be smarter, he will... No one in this life owes you anything, all people are free and have the right to do what they want. Don't be an asshole, there are a lot of people like you and they think the same. Nothing is free in this world, you have to work hard to get something. If you are interested in money, be smarter, develop a strategy and act so that everyone is satisfied.
As for the sub, it's practically the same. This is financial domination, no one will fulfill your dirty fantasies for free. You have to pay for what your Dom wants. Do not waste the time of other people who want to make a connection with you. You are not the only one. No one makes you to pay an amount that you cannot repay. Everything has its price, and in financial domination it is one of the key parts.
And most importantly, findom is a relationship, one-time or long-term, it all depends on the people. Everyone fulfills his role in it and has what he has.
3) Online relationships and real life relationships are a big difference. Everything is clear here, everything is like in life. Online relationships are a fun stage of getting to know each other for a short period of time. But fіndom in real life is already different, different emotions, different relationship, interest and so on...
Unfortunately, I didn't have the opportunity to experience it, but everything is possible.
That's all.
I hope you understand what I wanted to write. Thanks to everyone who read this post. Have a nice day everyone and be yourself
Posted by
DorianTheAlpha
Hot Takes
A few thoughts to stir the pot:
- A big cock and/or being fit is fun, but hardly defines dominance.
- Meaningful conversation and timewasting differ. The latter happens far more.
- Doms can also (and often are) time wasters when reaching out to subs.
- Manners matter, both ways. Manners can exist within intense, harsh, vulgar dynamics too.
- Power exchange that lacks formality or framework is just friendship with money transfer.
- Bottoming from the top is as common as topping from the bottom (if not even more common).
- Honesty matters just as much with a Master as with their sub, especially if they are a switch.
- The chat should have a daily theme/prompt to stir banter & minimise drivel.
- Much of the content here is an echo chamber; it is okay (and important) to constructively disagree.
- MOA should grow a Hulk-Hogan style handlebar stache next Movember.
Feel free to challenge below (or call out if you find these to not be hot takes/you agree).
Cheers
Posted by
Masterjakejohnson
So every morning I wake up with a nice big smile on my face knowing that I am superior in this species we like to call the human race.
Only around 10 percent of the human population are alpha by nature and probably only a small percentage of that group of individuals know how to fully assert their power and dominance over the more submissive of the species for their own personal gain.
I know my worth, you will not change that.. all I seem to come across a lot in this scene is a large dose of jealousy and it has to be one of the most clickiest scenes I have encountered during my 37 years of life on this forsaken place we call home. I find it a bit funny to be honest rather than offensive.
The key to it all and the secret of it all is positivity and I know it sounds a bit obvious but it’s true. If you continue with a positive outlook you will naturally attract more positivity towards you. (Naturally). If however you are constantly doubting yourself or your potential to be a success what do you think the end result is gonna be? You guessed it… your pretty much doomed or at best your setting yourself up to fail.
Your circle is important don’t get me wrong and it’s paramount to surround yourself with people you naturally vibe with but your own mentality is way more important as when the chips are down no one but you is gonna truly have your back and believe me when I say this… I have learnt the hard way.
If you are constantly doubting your ability to serve as a sub you are never going to make forward steps, likewise if you are constantly doubting your ability to assert yourself as a dom you are going to remain pretty stagnant. No point complaining, the only person capable of changing it is YOU.
Findom works best when both parties involved are coming from a positive perspective. All other d/s relationships are destined to fail. They might be fun for a while but they will have no longevity. Which ultimately should be the goal for any successful DOM or thriving SUB. When you both thrive together it is magical.
Look at it this way. If you’re not well off then realise your limits are small sends but make them small enough so they can be regular to keep both yours and your DOMS interest rife. If you’re well off then you still need to keep them sends regular for the relationship to continue at a good pace. The amounts will not be as painful for the more well off sub but the sacrifice remains the same and that is ultimately what matters most.
All this money for kinks stuff is not findom so stop trying to play it off as such. There is nothing wrong with selling content or items of clothing or anything else for that matter but IT IS NOT FINDOM.
Posted by
HadrianTemple
I just wanted to praise Master Zal for being classy. My slave MoneySlaveBr used to serve Master Zal when the slave first showed up here on OF, but on a casual basis. Ultimately MoneySlave chose to join my stable but he still has a good deal of respect for Zal. So yesterday, the slave asked my permission to occasionally tribute to Zal as a gesture of respect. I agreed, because I think it's important for cashslaves to have social contact and support from others who are in this lifestyle, and it's important for faggots to show respect to their superiors.
This morning I woke up to a message from Zal letting me know that my slave had reached out and offered to send tribute to him. He wanted to make sure that I understood that he respects my ownership of my property and that he wasn't seeking to have MoneySlave $erve him and hadn't tried to initiate anything with him.
This is what a true classy dominant man does. He respects his fellow masters and their rights over their property and wants to make certain that the master knows and approves of what their slave is doing so there's nothing going on behind backs.
There are a LOT of would-be masters on this site who ignore the site's rules about not contact an owned fag without the owner's permission. I see it in my property's messages quite frequently (not just MoneySlave's messages, all of my active faggots). And it's always a rather obvious, open effort to poach a slave. It's a shitty thing to do. It's disrespectful to both the master and his property, and it's a very good indication that the wannabe dom has no idea what actual dominance is about.
True masters demonstrate their worthiness through their actions. They attract prospective slaves by showing that they have integrity and strength and don't need to resort to craven attempts to steal a slave. A would-be dom who can't be trusted to not steal someone else's property can't be trusted to take care of any boys who might submit to him, so ultimately efforts to poach a slave are self-defeating--they make a would-be dom look weak rather than strong.
Zal, in contrast, regularly demonstrates his strength and integrity and shows the wannabes how you actually do it--lead by example and the boys will submit and serve. His slaves should be proud to serve a quality master like him. There's clearly a reason Zal has a substantial stable here, and I hope he continues to be a pillar of the community.
Posted by
niggablk
Don't wait slaves, there'll never be the right time. Start where you stand and go on your knees right away and work with whatever tool you've at your command and better tools will be found as you go along with a MASTER . The best way of measuring success to your slavery journey is just accessing what impact you've made in a Master life. Today, make a conscious effort in making a difference in A MASTER life.
Allow your pathetic clitty to decide and lead you to a great Master not to be fool by your brainless decision as useless Scum you are always
Posted by
Herbby
Been enjoying a good week while subs and fags are showing their respect. Keep it going slaves. The tips and the tributes are welcome. Keep them coming.
As we approach the end of pride month it is the perfect time to finish off by showing you understand your position and your status. Enjoy!
Master looks forward to all that those below have to show. Use your imagination, creativity gains lots of points in my world.
To all my other Masters out there, enjoy the rewards you receive and deserve.
Posted by
DaddyRich
The will to serve, endure pain and humiliation is every slaves dream. The master knows it all. Mankind has evolved from knowing what is natural role is, from being a Dom/ Top/Master to a sub/bottom/slave.
The demons of men has helped in the realization of this thus making mankind crave darkness even more as it has brought heavy desires unimaginable and has soothing balm for all aspirations from mild SM to no limits SM. Every slave must embrace it's demon's and all fears will disappear thereby giving it a new birth to be reborn again as a pig that will NEVER hold back once it's MASTER gives it an order or task to fulfil.
Slave's, bring all tips now to DADDY RICH. every slave owned must crawl back to it's Owner and should gratitude for it's worthless meaningless life made worthy and meaningful by it's Master and Owner
Posted by
CallMeSir
Master of the day May 16. I have been a Master for more than 25 years now and have had some really good experiences. For me it's not a game. It's my way of living. And now I am contemplating wether I should share some of my events in writing.
Being a true and open Master means my friends and colleagues know me as the true Me.
Some colleagues have also learned that if they ask about my night before they will get a full reply.
This is an excellent site for me. I have a lot of fun with findom and it fits my ideas of Master slave relations, but it is also just a part of all that that I am.
My main goals are real meetings and training of a slave to become a total slave for my pleasures .
A sexslave, workslave, cashslave, painslave, totally exposed for me, under total control of me, trained by me and molded into my idea of the perfect total slave.
Looking for those few gems of a slave I take my time and enjoy the journey.
I already found a good few and I am very proud of them but got time for a couple more.
Let me know if slave thinks it's up for the task. Up on my standard. And we'll talk
Sir
Posted by
Domtoptom
A is for Ass. A faggot must always be prepared to sniff, eat and lick a Man’s ass — whether it’s clean or dirty, smooth or hairy, dry or sweaty. As a faggot, it’s your duty to be a human asswipe wherever and whenever your services are needed.
B is for Balls. A faggot never neglects a Man’s balls. Fresh from a shower or ripe and sweaty after days without a shower, His sack is your snack.
C is for Cum. Cum is the staple of the faggot diet. Your primary source for sustenance, therefore, should always be seed. It is your lifeblood. Down your throat or in your ass, you need a constant supply of cock snot and must be willing to do whatever it takes to get fed.
D is for Dick. A faggot exists to service and worship dick. Never forget it. His dick is your deity.
E is for e***a. Unless otherwise instructed by his Master, a faggot always must keep his hole in pristine condition: clean, shaved and ready to be used at a moment’s notice.
F is for Feet. Figuratively and literally, faggots live at the feet of real Men. At your Master’s feet, therefore, is where you belong. Furthermore, it’s your duty as a faggot to worship Men’s feet. Stinky, sweaty, dirty, bare, socked — it doesn’t matter. When you’re so commanded, you are to lick, sniff and suck your Master’s feet.
G is for Gangbang. Faggots are ideal for sharing. Even if you belong to just one Master, therefore, you must be mentally and physically prepared to be passed around among Men, who will bond over the experience of sharing your holes.
H is for Hole. Every faggot has two holes, both of which were designed to be used and abused by Men. It is not up to the faggot which hole is used; a Man may choose to occupy — and, if He so desires, ruin — whatever hole He pleases.
I is for Inspection. Faggots are subject to frequent and thorough inspections by Men, who have the right to ensure their faggot meets their standards both physically and mentally. You must be prepared to have every inch of your body examined and prodded during an inspection, and — at the discretion of the Man who is inspecting you — to either thank Him if you receive a passing grade, or to commit yourself to making whatever improvements He deems necessary if you receive a failing grade.
J is for Jerking Off. When they are being used, faggots are not permitted to pleasure themselves, unless given permission to do so by the Man they’re servicing. This includes jerking their fag-dick and cumming; a faggot is not allowed to do either without prior permission.
K is for Kneeling. A faggot’s default position is on his knees. Unless ordered otherwise, a faggot should never stand or sit in the presence of a Man; he should always kneel.
L is for Licking. A faggot must get used to licking, because he will do a lot of it. He will lick his Master’s cock and balls, for instance. He will lick his Master’s ripe s**t hole. He will lick his Master’s feet. He will lick up spilled spit, piss and cum from the floor. He may even be required to lick the s**t and piss stains from toilets.
M is for Masochism. Faggots are masochistic by nature. They enjoy being used, degraded and abused. It is their place in life. If you’re going to be a practicing faggot, you must get used to the idea that you are less than a Man — perhaps even less than human — and will be treated as such.
N is for Nipples. A faggot must recognize that His Master’s nipples are centers of pleasure, and deserve to be licked and sucked for his Master’s enjoyment. Likewise, he must recognize that his own nipples are centers of pain, and will be used for training or during punishment if so desired by his Master.
O is for Obedience. As a faggot, it’s your duty to obey Men. When they tell you to do something — no matter how humiliating, scary, gross, etc. — you do it. End of story. In the event that you do not obey, you should be ready and willing to receive appropriate punishment for your disobedience, which might range from spanking to solitary confinement to chastity, or anything in between.
P is for Poppers. Many Men love using poppered-up pigs. If your Master is one of them, you must open your nose and inhale from his little brown bottle whenever he presents it. It is your duty to please him, so if he tells you to sniff, you had better sniff long, hard and deep.
Q is for Quiet. A good faggot expresses appreciation to the Men he services with verbal thanks and moans of pleasure. However, there comes a time when every Man demands that a faggot simply shut up and take it. During these times, it’s your duty as a faggot to remain quiet — and to be gagged if you fail to do so.
R is for Restraints. Faggots often must be bound and restrained in order to be of maximum use to the Men they service. As a faggot, therefore, you must not object when your Master breaks out the rope, handcuffs and chains. If He needs you to be immobilized so that He may make optimal use of your fag holes, you must submit. He knows what’s best.
S is for Service. Faggots must have a servant’s heart. Service and enslavement are in your faggot nature; embrace them.
T is for Toilet. “Faggot” is a synonym for “toilet.” As a faggot, therefore, your holes must be available for Men to use as they would any other toilet. That is, as a receptacle for spit, piss, cum, snot, farts and perhaps even s**t. Not every Man will choose to use His faggot this way, but if you’re to be a true faggot you must resign yourself to your role as a waste receptacle. If a Man’s body produces it, it is His right to dispose of it in you.
U is for Underwear. Unless otherwise instructed, faggots are not allowed to wear underwear — or any clothes, for that matter — in the presence of Men, as their holes must be as available and as accessible as possible. The only exception is a jockstrap; because it does not block access to a faggot’s cunt, a jockstrap is an acceptable fag uniform.
V is for Vibrator. As a faggot, your hole should be constantly occupied. When it is not filled with cock, then, it should be occupied by a vibrator or another anal toy — a dildo, perhaps, anal beads or a butt plug.
W is for Whore. Faggots are whores. Remember this. If you find yourself feeling ashamed or embarrassed or regretful of your fag activities, remind yourself that you are a whore. The knowledge that you are fulfilling your God-given purpose in life should be comforting, such that you can continue your mission of sexual servitude.
X is for X-ray. Remember that Men have the equivalent of X-ray vision when it comes to spotting pigs and whores. If you’re a faggot, they will see it and they will know it. There is no use pretending to be a real Man, therefore. You might as well give in and accept your true identity as a faggot, because everyone around you already sees it and knows it — even if you yourself are trying to deny it.
Y is for Yes. As in, “Yes, Sir,” which is the only phrase a faggot should know how to say.
Z is for Zoo. It’s no accident that many faggots identify as “pigs,” “otters,” “cubs” and “pups.” If they weren’t so useful to Men out in the real world, faggots would likely be kept in a zoo alongside the real pigs and pups. If you ever feel the urge to talk back to a Man, therefore, or to demand equal treatment from one, stop and remember that you’re really just another a****l; the Man is doing what’s good and right by trying to domesticate you so you may live alongside him in society instead of in a zoo.
