In power-based BDSM and findom relationships, maturity plays a crucial role in ensuring a safe and satisfying experience, while immaturity can lead to various problems.
It's important to note that maturity goes beyond age; it encompasses emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and accountability. In these contexts, emotional maturity outweighs age. Mature individuals excel at setting clear boundaries, openly discussing their desires, and respecting their partners' limits, all of which are essential for maintaining a safe and consensual BDSM or findom relationships. Immaturity however can lead to impulsive decisions, disrespect, and a disregard for the well-being of all parties involved, which contradicts the fundamental principles of BDSM and findom.
Taking responsibility for one's actions is a critical aspect of our BDSM, findom and day to day relationships. It's essential to acknowledge mistakes without blaming others for negative outcomes. Genuine maturity involves owning up to your choices and working together to ensure everyone feels secure and valued, particularly in the context of findom.
Regardless of age, emphasizing trust, consent, safety, and personal responsibility is vital. Recognizing that everyone makes mistakes and learning from them is part of growth. It's our response to these mistakes that not only defines our roles as dominants or submissives but also shapes our character as individuals.
A person's worth isn't determined by their role; it's about how they handle mistakes and strive for improvement. Embracing our failures and weaknesses is the path to growth and resilience, benefiting not only ourselves but others around us.
We all make mistakes, and it's not about our roles or backgrounds; it's about the ongoing journey of self-improvement that adds value to our lives and those closest to us.
Failing to take responsibility and refusing to learn and grow can render us weak and a liability to those who rely on us. It erodes trust and integrity in our relationships. When we evade accountability for our actions, we jeopardize the well-being of those who depend on us. It demonstrates a lack of commitment to self-improvement and personal development, hindering our ability to adapt and contribute positively in our relationships.
To summarize, a failure to grow and be accountable for our actions makes us unreliable and stagnant, rendering us unable to evolve and fulfill our responsibilities effectively. To be dependable and valuable to others, embracing responsibility and learning from our mistakes is not just important, but the very foundation of what it means to be a mature person.
Lately I have been feeling extremely horny and wanting to be a complete evil bastard to some subs and really play rough, wanting to go into extreme play (will leave the extreme play to your imagination), have been wanting to meet a fag who wants to experience extreme play but at the same time guide me with it so we can both have a fantastic time. Also want to heavily drain a fag of his tips and leave him penniless/broke, but not to the extreme that he faces eviction or struggles to pay his bills.
Where are the fags that want to meet real time, have some serious play and have a good time?
Am happy to travel within reason or make arrangements to go to a fags place for a holiday and have some extreme play
Yes as you have probably guessed am wanting to be a bastard towards a fag but for whatever reasons be-known to them it seems to scare them
Think about it faggots, subs and slaves, your all attracted to masculinity and what is the closest thing you get to being male? Piss. The way a man undoes there fly. The way a man stands. The power of the stream. The smell of a man. The smell as it ages. The idea of taking in the power of the man you worship. The humiliation of being on your knees below a man. Lower than the man you warship just to receive the most basic of there gift to you.
Jason just turned 45. He looked at the birthday cake his mates had bought him. No wife, and in a career he hated. What had he achieved in life so far? He thought to himselfā¦ All of his mates were married with kids. Heād spend his nights wanking, always feeling a sense of guilt after.
Most of his mates had left his house after a few birthday drinks, back to their own lives. His mateās cousin Alex had cone alongā¦ Jason hadnāt spoken to him much all evening, but heād overheard him say he was 27, and worked in IT. It was clear he worked out, he wasnāt particularly huge but was well toned. Jason definitely felt a bit of envy about his lean body.
About 5 minutes after everyone had left, Jason heard the door open.
āAlright mate, just forgot my wallet.ā He heard Alexās voice shout from the corridor.
Alex walked into the kitchen and Jason shyly said āoh did you? Oh yes must be this one?ā
Jason picked up the wallet from the chair and passed it to him, nearly tripping over himself in the exchange.
āOne too many lad?ā Laughed Alex.
āIām getting too old for this š©ā Jason replied.
āToo old to party?ā Alex asked.
āYeah, I guess I am.ā
āFucking hell man itās your birthday you sound miserable as fuckā¦ did you not have a nice time?ā
Alex noticed Jason was looking at his arms and chest. Heād noticed Jason was doing this earlier when Alex was joking with the other lads.
āYou checking me out bro?ā
āWhat.. ermā¦ what do you mean? No, checking you out?ā
āYeah man, looking at my chest and arms like youāre fixed on themā¦ā
Jasonās face turned bright red, as he spluttered āNo man Iām notā¦ Iām not aā¦ā
āA what?ā Alex asked.
Jasonās eyes had moved to focusing on Alexās feet.
Jason stuttered āAā¦ you knowā¦ A faggot!ā
Alex started laughing.
āYou seem pretty focused on my feet now lad. You sure youāre not thinking dirty things?ā
Jason panicked now. He didnāt know what to think or say. Had the thought crossed his mind? Was he feeling envy about this 27 year oldās body or was it something else?
Jason started to speak but couldnāt find the words, he could feel his face getting redder and his palms were sweating and shaking.
The smile had gone from Alexās face now. He looked stern as he stepped in front of Jason.
āWhy donāt you get on your knees bitch? and Iāll tell you how this is going to go.ā
Jason still couldnāt make eye contact with Alex. He didnāt understand why, but his knees started to jerk, and before he knew it, he was kneeling in front of the 27 year old. Eyes still focused on his feet.
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If youāre owned, always ask your Masterās permission.
After a hiatus of around 6 months, I am back on the site, same profile name as before, and looking to reconnect with lots of people again. I thought it better to disconnect completely, and only rejoin when i was ready to connect with people again, and commit to being a dom Master on here again.
Looking forward to talking to you all. Come and say hello. Iwill respond as soon as I can
I come on here, with the expectation of having fun, chatting, possibly cracking a few jokes, and of course getting tips/gifts.
This morning I tried cracking a joke and instead of the other person messaging me to say that he didn't find it funny or to say "sorry CB, you got it wrong" he just instantly blocked me, I tried reaching out on another platform to find out what I done wrong and to apologise.
Since this morrnings blocking, I have looked at myself on this site and to be fair and honest, I feel like I am not welcome anymore, I feel like am getting pushed out and that people only speak to me if am the only one in chat or just to be pleasant.
I have come to the conclusion that when I can withdraw all my tips I will and then will delete my profile as I don't want to be a burden to anyone, also I don't want to be in chat where I am not welcome.
I know most will see this as negativity, but it is how I feel, I will think about staying or rejoining, but I will have to be made feel welcome, š¢š¢
For some personal facts, i love reading, specially fantasy novels and more classic literature, i really enjoy horror too, specially cosmic and body horror. I also enjoy videogames and cooking, along with helping my local creature refuge and just interacting with creatures in general, ive been trying to befriend neighbouring magpies for example.
Now then, you might be asking yourself "yeah, thats fine, but why would i give you my money" and to that, my dear sub to be, i have an easy answer, It's not so much about the money silly, but more so the show of powerlessness you accept when submitting it, be it for a new coffee i want to try, ingredients for a recipee, pc parts, second hand books, sex toys, whatever i want to do with your sweet tips is mine to decide, but it will certainly be better than just sitting idle in your wallet. Also, i can be devilishly mischievous and charming in equal parts, silver tongued, if you will, so dont be shy, i do bite, but its only to mark you as mine :}
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