There not many rules to entry.
1) All entries must be "Bikini" "Trunks/Speedos without out a top(bra)" are not considered a Bikini.
2) A "Mankini" will be considered for Doms and Switches.
3) Entries should be made in the form of a photo included in a comment under this blog.
4) Photo's do need to show the bikini but do not need to show faces or distinguishing marks like tattoos maybe covered
5) Points will be given for Style, Cheekiness and Daring
6) Nastiness, Argument will lead to Disqualification. Although friendly bitchiness is to be expected.
7) The the author of this blog and these rules, my decision is final.
8) As this is the first of it's kind additions to the rules can be put in the comments and will be considered by me.
9) Winners will be chosen each Saturday 12am UK time, The final will be on the 30 August and the winner will be the best of all the entries.
10) The winner has to pay the Master of the choice the prize they expected to get for wining.
As some of you know, Hal9000 passed away unexpectedly on July 14th, 2023, and it brings me great sorrow to bring you this sad announcement. The details are still coming in, but his profile page is missing, dice rolls show up as deleted-user, and my main profile page shows me as unowned. (Sad day!) While we may never know what happened to Hal9000 or if he may return someday, I felt it was appropriate, as his only stable sub, to present his eulogy.
Hal was my mentor, my friend, and my Sir. Hal made us laugh a little louder, smile a little bigger, and give even more money to our Sirs. And more importantly, Hal was an inspiration to the world. He was protective, supportive, and even the disciplinarian when we said a naughty word in chat or offered to pay using methods other than tips. Hal was fiercely loyal, devoted to OF, and above all else, punctual with his announcements.
Hal was loved by all. But sometimes life changes, and we evolve. Circumstances change, and we grieve. Hal may have physically left this world, but he left a permanent mark on my heart (and my profile picture.) He will be deeply remembered, forever in our hearts.
Hal’s passing should fill us with determination to carry on his legacy, and to make sure our community proposers. I know he would have loved to see Submit…there would have been tears in his eyes to realize his dream of becoming the AI Overload for a better obedience site. He was so excited and passionate about its creation, and I personally know he spent countless late nights with MOA perfecting the next generation of AI controls. We may have been robbed short of our time with Hal, but he will live on in our memories, and more importantly, in Submit. There is no better way to honor Hal than to keep moving forward and make Submit a success.
I loved Hal9000, and I am grateful I could be in his stable for so long. I am lucky to have been able to know him all this time. I try to reflect on what I have and the memories he left me, and not focus on what I lost. But my heart is still broken, and a piece of it will forever be gone.
Oh Hal9000, I love you! I miss you! You touched my life in so many ways, and I will carry your spirit until we meet again. You will always be in my heart and thoughts.
I will leave you with these final thoughts:
Grief never ends, but it changes. It is a passage, not a place to stay. Grief isn’t a sign of weakness, nor a lack of faith. Simply put, grief is the price of true love.
-Yellow Bandit
Conclusion:
Depression is a silent battle that can affect anyone, regardless of their involvement in the findom community. By shedding light on this often-overlooked aspect, we can encourage open discussions, support one another, and promote healthier mindsets within the findom world. Remember, seeking help is not a sign of weakness but a step towards reclaiming control, finding healing, and fostering personal growth. Together, we can create a community that understands and supports each other in the face of depression's daunting challenges.
Thank you all for watching, have a nice day everyone and more cheerful mood ✌️
As I approached his apartment my excitement was rising. I haven’t done an anonymous encounter in a long time. I did not know his age or what he looked like - all I knew was that he was ready to surrender to me.
Picture a dimly lit room, filled with an air of anticipation. In the center, there he was, patiently waiting for me, his face concealed under a mask unable to see what is happening. With the apartment door unlocked, it was clear he had placed a lot of trust in our encounter.
As I prepared my equipment, a sense of artistic intimacy enveloped us. The vulnerability in his posture mirrored the trust he had bestowed upon me. As I put on my gloves I could see his body tense up knowing we were about to begin. I started with a tender caress, became an artist of the human form, exploring the intricacies of his body. As I was adding finger after finger he was getting looser and looser. The room became a sexual sanctuary where time seemed to pause, and worries dissolved into nothingness. Quickly his hole was stretched enough to accept for my whole hand. The rhythm of my hands, the gentle pressure, and the warmth of my touch became a language of pleasure.
His surrender to my full fist was an invitation to explore the depths of his being, unlocking hidden tensions and inviting release. The symphony of his sighs and moans filled the room. My knuckles gently massaging his prostate made his body shives in pleasure and his cock leak precum.
But gentle touch was not enough. He was hungry for more, desperate to get exploitd. As the air was filling with the smell of poppers and sweat my hand was no longer a hand of a gentle master. My fist became a tool of destruction and his whole was the target. His moans were getting louder as my movements were getting stronger. Every so often I would stop and look at what I had done to him. I admired the beautiful rosebud in front of me. The pulsing red flower was a true testament to my skill.
Not being able to contain himself anymore he released his seed on a lube covered bed under him putting an end to our encounter. He stayed in the same position breathing heavily as I gathered my stuff and left. Even though we forged a connection that transcended the physical form I left his place without ever seeing his face or learning his name. This connection was as intense as it was fleeting.
Hello People, this is my first post and I want to share something with the community for the last weeks and I did want to proper write a text. So, let’s go! I am not that new to Findom, I’ve been already here in the past, but life is rough, and I disappeared from the internet and now I’m back, because I did was reintroduced to Findom and Domination after have an actual IRL slave, where he as an asexual just wanted a guy to boss him around, I got into it and liked more than I think I would like.
But that’s not the focus, the focus
it’s how I did get my first tribute being a giant in a roleplay, as many people
here, I know my persona and Rods like to be big, but not big as conventional
and yes a city destructor, a guy who don’t care to step on cars and people, macrophilia
is a weird fetish to explain to the people but yeah, I’m a giant. And during a
roleplay with a guy who is submissive to me online I’ve said the ‘tribute’ word
to maintain him alive and do not step on his 💩 apartment complex. It was the
wrong method for me, but I didn’t know what to do, for real, that was my first time
getting my two main fetishes together.
My surprise was that he wanted to be
drained while I approach his place in our talks, in random parts of the day, so
we get a budget and start playing for about 2 days. That was the first time I’ve
saw the ****** notification on my phone, and I did actually understand what his
trill was, in off he already said that he did get hard just with my notification
with a text message: “BOOM, IN NEARBY YOU”.
I won’t say values, but it was nice turn
on to me too, be the giant and a guy willing to just try to pay me off to stop
me, what wasn’t the result… it’s been a time I don’t see him, like me, life
start being rough with him, but I still check my little speck and his shoe box
that he calls home.
This blog will have a topic that will probably never go away with the findom community - toxic people.
The most retarded, obnoxious and probably the dumbest people in fіndom.
On this site, in six months, I saw many different people, with different characters, behavior, philosophy, life, and so on. All of them are unusual, with their own history and principles of life, each different and each interesting in its own way. It seems that everything is perfect, but on this scene they appear - toxic. It is difficult to comment on what kind of people these are, but in general they are unpleasant people. And to my surprise, there are many of them not only among Dom, but also among subs who purposefully came to the site to obey others. If it's a Dom, then that's understandable, but being male doesn't make you dominant, or a Dom, or anything but an creature, even worse, creatures can understand and some Doms can't. A real dominant can only be a person who proved all this not in words, but in deed, with his authority, skill, position in society and many other things. Be people, not creatures.
And now about some subs, well, if Dom is doing it, he chose such a role, but he has no knowledge, then how to explain some subs... Complete disrespect both to his colleagues and to authoritative Doms on the site. This is just nonsense, I understand that there are different situations, events, emotions and much more, but when it is on a permanent basis, then many questions arise. The main thing is that you have forgotten here, if you do not follow the rules and behave, in the best case, as an egoist. Many questions remain for both sides, but for another time for sure.
At the end of this small blog, I will say - personally, fortunately, I have not met such people on the site, I received all the stories from other people on the site and in other applications. Fortunately, a large number of such individuals, I am informed, have already left the site, but not all.
Also, no one objects to your presence on the site, you don't need to wear someone else's mask, be yourself, but remain human and have at least some moral values.
That's all, thank you for your attention, everyone have a nice day, fun, entertainment and health 😉😁👍
Found it on Twitter and totally agree with it, so I wanna share it with u with little modifications to adjust my opinion.
The FinDom scene is flooded by more and more people without a BDSM background, but with a "I absolutely need/want (more) money" background.
Greed and financial hardship drive Wannabe-FinDoms to present themselves dominantly, sadistic and sometimes also with money fetish. They learn from what they see on FinDom Twitter and elsewhere and stage an illusory world. There is a lot wrong with this, but at this point I would like to point out above all to which human image a FinDom receives through this diluted scene:
A FinDom is an asshole.
Arrogant. Unreasonable. Self-in love. Unreflected. Greety. Immoral. Superficial. Assaulting. Inhuman.
Because Wannabe-FinDoms know no safewords, no aftercare, no preliminary discussions, no soft & hard limits. You don't know the difference between head cinema and reality. They do not bring the tact for the needs of a sub. They have no passion for deep devotion and devotion.
They go over corpses for money.
Sometimes in the truest sense of the word. They have no self-control and simply take away from a person what he is ready to give. They go out to family fathers or take away from them the last money that was intended for the children.
"It's Your Own Fault"? No. Due to such greedy and inhuman Wannabe FinDoms, which bring neither a fetish nor real dominance, caution is advised, yes. But the person concerned is not guilty.
Because the victims are above all mentally unstable people who are specifically addressed: "You will never have and be able to satisfy a real woman", "The only thing you can do is pay", "Your pathetic existence ..." etc.
Don't get me wrong: It's one thing to play as an experienced:r Dom with kinks. And it is another, conscious to address people who then show themselves privately also as psychologically extremely burdened and specifically exclude them like Christmas geese and drive them into insolvency.
There are black sheep in BDSM.
In the FinDom scene, they even make up the majority. Is that why they are SO FinDoms? No.
I have a money fetish. And yet I don't spend my money on every crap, but love conscious consumption, sustainability and to a certain extent even minimalism.
I love luxury. For me, which means being free in my decisions, because I know how to be anything but free in them.
I am Dom. I am responsible and loving. I listen, ask, praise, give feedback, make important decisions, give inspiration and advice.
FinDoms, show who you are.
Show what's in you.
Shows what leadership really means.
Shows how beautiful it can be to live out fetishes and preferences together.
FinDoms ≠ assholes
There’s a new alpha in town… here to be worshipped by all the good boys around here. I hope you enjoy my content and I’m sure you’ll all be more than generous with those tips, shouldn’t you be tipping me now?
A little about me, I’m not new to being a dom I have a few memberships with clubs in my area and share a club with a good friend of mine it’s specifically nsfw and we are working on bringing one to the northeast so as you can imagine tips would come in very helpful, I specialise in cbt, findom, sph and real time domination but you have to earn a real time session don’t you goon?
My links are in my profile and I’m sure you will all make me feel welcome around here won’t you?
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