There not many rules to entry.
1) All entries must be "Bikini" "Trunks/Speedos without out a top(bra)" are not considered a Bikini.
2) A "Mankini" will be considered for Doms and Switches.
3) Entries should be made in the form of a photo included in a comment under this blog.
4) Photo's do need to show the bikini but do not need to show faces or distinguishing marks like tattoos maybe covered
5) Points will be given for Style, Cheekiness and Daring
6) Nastiness, Argument will lead to Disqualification. Although friendly bitchiness is to be expected.
7) The the author of this blog and these rules, my decision is final.
8) As this is the first of it's kind additions to the rules can be put in the comments and will be considered by me.
9) Winners will be chosen each Saturday 12am UK time, The final will be on the 30 August and the winner will be the best of all the entries.
10) The winner has to pay the Master of the choice the prize they expected to get for wining.
I always feel like the best place to start any dom/sub relationship is with a get to know you message system. Get in touch on here or we can move it to my skype. Each question will require a small token tribute but its always a great way to establish a connection and see if a sub is geneuine. Also great for the lonely subs out there who really need to chat. Looking forward to your messages and starting a slow controlled relationship and drain for your masters benefit. Everytime a new question/message "dings" in my inbox folder my 9' cock throbs a little bit harder. Looking forward to hearing from you soon subs ;)
AussieStr8Dom
I find enjoyment in the building of the relationship between a dom and a sub. Some are eager to jump into the deep end, others need more time. And that's ok. As long as the sub is serious, willing, and dedicated, I am willing to do my part to help build them up, strengthen the relationship, and provide them their end of this pleasure deal. I enjoy seeing subs change and develop over time. Becoming more willing, more eager, enjoying what they do. I enjoy seeing them offer things not because I told them to, but because they WANT to. That's they key part. I WANT them to enjoy serving, I WANT them to enjoy what they do, I WANT them to look forward every day to doing what they do best.
Seeing that, in my opinion, is something that can't be beat. And it makes every tribute that much sweeter, for both sides. If you as a sub do not enjoy sending Send every time, then I have failed you. And I for one do not tolerate failure. So I strive every day to learn more, to grow more, to be a dom that you can be happy and proud to serve.
Oh boy, the feeling of control and overall power that I feel over a sub when I see that email saying I have money waiting. Seeing how they often beg and praise while degrading themselves. Having that physical element to it in a way that benefits the dom (me), really helps to tie it all together.
As a dom, I believe that I should be able to converse with a sub, establish the rules, and have some fun. Abd while I wouldn't go out of my way to bankrupt someone... I'd be down for it if they so choose. So, if you're reading this and want to have some fun, send me a message. And it will all begin real soon
We all know there is a world out there of men that are turned on by being laughed at, humiliated, and exposed. In this short blog I want to focus on exposure subs and my findom.
b*******l is real and is getting more and more into findom. The master exposes the sub online (without consent). The sub is paying master to remove every single piece of info that is in the public domain. Myself I am not into non-consensual play.
Than we have exposure subs begging to be exposed. They want to get exposed, they actually kick on seeing their pictures and what they are doing all over the internet. If a master exposes the material which was send to him, than he actually helps realising the subs fantasy. It is as if the sub send a script to the master. I don’t see any power exchange here, there is no thrill for the Dom. If you are paid to expose the sub, it is rather being paid for a service. Yes I have exposed subs on their the demand for which I was paid. But I see it more like some marketing stuff. It’s a play which needs to be handled carefully, the last thing I want is to give the Sub some power. Also it gets boring after a while. Okay, not all exposure subs begging for attention are the same, if an exposure sub submits to a Doms superiority a relation can be developed like..
… Sub is tributing for you attention
… Sub is promoting his master
… Sub I getting mindfucked by his master and is showing his respect by tributing
I am sure there are more elements that can be added here, so comment or share experiences (let focus on he positive ones here).
As a newbie you may wonder, when is the best time to consider joining a stable on this site? I have only been on this site a couple of days and wanted to share a reflection on how cope with the first day or two as a lone stray or slave on here and trying to navigate your way around the site, and come to grips with all its features... and possible early pitfalls!
On my first day after registration, someone said to me that it can feel like being ‘thrown into a pool of sharks’, and there is certainly some truth in that so prepare yourself!
However, if you explore that analogy a little further, you can actually find a solution in there too! For me, what I did was, when the first ‘shark’ or Master came along who presented as clearly powerful, dominant, charismatic and communicated a clear projection of an overall decent person with personality (yes, I’m talking about you, my beloved MasterZal, you can start preening your feathers while you smile that knowing smile!)… well, I bought him a beer and asked him about joining his stable. My initial judgement of him was confirmed when he advised not to rush into things too quickly unless I was absolutely sure. This ‘shark’ didn’t bite needlessly then and had some real and genuine empathy for me in my predicament. To be serious, being taken in by Masterzal is like walking into the corner shop and buying a lottery ticket and then winning big time! I simply can’t wait, and am giddy with excitement and butterflies, to begin deepening and strengthening our Master/slave dynamic, learn from him and open myself up to all the new opportunities for growth and personal development that comes with any new special relationship. I feel truly blessed to have stepped through the front door of OF and found Masterzal waiting there to greet me at the ‘welcome mat’ and show me around. How many slaves can truly say that they have had that same intensively positive and encouraging start to their life at OF? Quality conversations and interactions from the get-go! Comments below, please! Or drop me a message and tell me your story, I would love to hear it, both good and less good experiences!
Later that first day I wanted to thank him for his advice and his general good guy vibes (how they gently pull our strings so, eh?!) so I bought him a really nice blue camo computer mouse from his Amazon wishlist. When he later thankedme for it and commented that he would think of me when he used it, which on this site might well be quite a lot, I realised that he hadsussed me out! I wanted him to think about me a lot, every time his Master’s hand grabbed that mouse and clicked. It would feel like it was a little bit of me he was grabbing and giving me a friendly ‘click’ or nudge.Or for every mouse scroll.. like a soft stroke or pat on the head.
Masterzal very kindly accepted my application to join his prestigious stable only 24 hours after joining the site, and was probably quite right indeed to call me a bit of a stray puppy looking for a collar and a short leash! But power and control is always a two-way process, it is never all about one side of the coin. And it made me reflect on my own and my gorgeous beloved Master’s words and actions... who exactly was controlling who and how in this scenario I’ve just outlined? Worth thinking about, eh? Who has gained more from the ‘transaction’?
To go back to the shark pool analogy, my reasoning was this: where is the safest place to be in a pool of sharks? Ask the Remora or Pilot Fish… they swim close to the sharks, eat any parasites feeding off the shark and so have formed an inter-dependent, symbiotic relationship with them… a bit like Masters and slaves when they truly get it right and commit to taking the time to get to know each and walk a journey together. From the point of a newbie slave - as a ‘Pilot Fish’ in a pool of ‘sharks’ - my advice to newbies is this…find the very best ‘shark’ you can, the very best Master who will help you grow and deepen your slave mindspace... and also find great comfort and refuge from predators in these perilous waters! Happy Swimming!
Click here for info on the Pilot fish!" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pilot_fish
Let’s begin by stating what I consider to be a basic principle: superiority is earned, not given.
I would question anyone claiming that asserting dominance over someone else is their “birthright”, or that they were born superior.
There are, of course, social and environmental factors that might have given someone the upper hand, or at least a certain advantage, in the path to earn that status. However, such things do not suffice to claim the title.
There is a reason why competency based interviews exist: writing up the perfect resume is easy, but demonstrating that you have all the right skills to perform well in a role is a different story.
It is similar to someone claiming to be funny: prove it to me, tell me a joke, make me laugh, and only then I shall agree with that statement.
There is of course a certain type of character who may fall victim of what has been referred to as the illusory truth effect: repeat a lie often enough and people will come to believe it.
And even though our actions should not be, for the most part, conditioned by the recognition from others, in this particular case, the power of numbers matters.
Superiority drives momentum, and it is, inevitably, closely related to leadership.
Most of us would recognise the key attributes of a good leader: charisma, confidence, integrity, motivation, authenticity, credibility, creativity, emotional intelligence, gravitas…
Powerful people move masses; not by chance, but because the way they portray themselves appears to be attractive to others, and it is that magnetism what provides the power to influence others.
One might wonder what specific characteristics can be considered attractive, and that would probably be a topic for an entirely different blog.
For some, it comes down to physical appearance, looks, and muscles; others value communication skills and empathy; a few people prioritise intelligence and knowledge; many would argue that the most attractive leaders, the truly superior ones, are those who happen to be the full package… and there is always the hopeless ones for whom a full package is reason enough to follow, submit, and obey.
So if you have made it thus far and read this blog in its entirety, ask your self:
As a slave, are you really serving someone who you admire and respect, someone who motivates you, and that you consider a rightful leader?
As a Master, are you really “superior”, and do you really have traits that separate yourself from the rest?
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