I'm Tee! I've been here a couple of months now, it's time I opened up a little. More commonly known as DarthTee in the kink community, (due to my obsession with the dark side of the starwars universe)
I've always been a dominant person, when I was a young lad, and joined the scouts, it took me two weeks for the leader of the troop to make me a junior leader, this pattern hasn't changed. I'm still dominating in life (very humbly might I add). So far completed 19 years in a career path that rewards the most fittest, smartest and ambitious people. My job is hard, I've done things most of you would of only heard about on the TV or podcasts. it has most definitely shaped me to be the man I am today!
I'm into all sorts of kink and BDSM, I regularly attend events in the UK, some which I photograph at as well! However this writing I want to focus on FinDom.
FinDom allows me to tap into a person you won't see on the outside world (even when I'm at events). With findom I can satisfy the megalomaniac side of me that wants to feel better than everyone else, more deserving due to the nature of what I do, or the rewards I've gotten from it. It allows me to tap into the power hungry prick I've spent years keeping away from every other aspect of my life. Even with this, everything I do is done with consent, you won't see that side of me unless you consent to it, yeah I can be a sadistic nightmare, but only if you ask.
I've build up a strong reputation within my community, one which I intend to transfer into this one, a very unique, lively and generous bunch of people.
Q. Why don't you have a honourific in your name Tee like sir, or master?
A. Words don't mean a lot if you can't back them up with actions, I'd rather prove to you what I am.
Echos of fallen respect, mediocrity and fakery.
Servitude shouldn't be requested.
It should just happen.
Like Steve in accounts.
I don't ask for a cuppa. He just brings it to me.
He even emptied my bin, even though we have cleaners, he just, emptied it.
(Thinking about it, maybe he'll go through it and try to get enough info to hack our bank accounts.... maybe he'll need sacking on monday)
Anyway.
If you want to serve.
Serve.
The first treatment of a Porn Movie that will be shot soon...
SCENE 1
INTEROR - The Safe House
Midday
In a dimly lit bedroom a laptop is gently humming. Exterior sounds of cars, police sirens and people talking. The sound of a cork popping is heard out of shot. Slave enters, walking from a steamy bathroom into the bedroom. He is naked and holding a glass of wine. His bronzed body and glistening muscles dripping with perspiration after a three-hour calisthenics session at a local gym. He smiles. He picks up a poster from the black silk sheets on the bed. He unrolls the poster and pins it on peeling wallpaper opposite the king-sized bed. Slave looks at the image. He groans, he shouts, empty wine glasses start moving and one falls from a chest of drawers.
Slave: NO. NO. NO! You’re kidding me! You’re fucking kidding me!
Close up to slave’s angry but alluringly handsome face.
Slave: Another fucking towel!
The poster is revealed. It shows Masterzal in a locker room, naked, with a white towel draped elegantly over his interesting bits. Slave beats the wall with his hand, his massive muscles strained in rage. The wall shakes and dust falls. The phone rings. Slave steadies himself. He inhales deeply through his manly nostrils. He turns and swaggers towards the telephone, scratching his enormous balls as his massive cock slaps his thighs. He picks up the receiver.
Slave: What?
A distant voice starts speaking unintelligibly.
Slave: When? Are you sure? Are you sure you want this? It WILL change your life. You’ll never be the same again. You’ll probably never walk in the same way again?
Slave replaces the handset and smiles.
If you would like a PART TWO, please let me know.
In power-based BDSM and findom relationships, maturity plays a crucial role in ensuring a safe and satisfying experience, while immaturity can lead to various problems.
It's important to note that maturity goes beyond age; it encompasses emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and accountability. In these contexts, emotional maturity outweighs age. Mature individuals excel at setting clear boundaries, openly discussing their desires, and respecting their partners' limits, all of which are essential for maintaining a safe and consensual BDSM or findom relationships. Immaturity however can lead to impulsive decisions, disrespect, and a disregard for the well-being of all parties involved, which contradicts the fundamental principles of BDSM and findom.
Taking responsibility for one's actions is a critical aspect of our BDSM, findom and day to day relationships. It's essential to acknowledge mistakes without blaming others for negative outcomes. Genuine maturity involves owning up to your choices and working together to ensure everyone feels secure and valued, particularly in the context of findom.
Regardless of age, emphasizing trust, consent, safety, and personal responsibility is vital. Recognizing that everyone makes mistakes and learning from them is part of growth. It's our response to these mistakes that not only defines our roles as dominants or submissives but also shapes our character as individuals.
A person's worth isn't determined by their role; it's about how they handle mistakes and strive for improvement. Embracing our failures and weaknesses is the path to growth and resilience, benefiting not only ourselves but others around us.
We all make mistakes, and it's not about our roles or backgrounds; it's about the ongoing journey of self-improvement that adds value to our lives and those closest to us.
Failing to take responsibility and refusing to learn and grow can render us weak and a liability to those who rely on us. It erodes trust and integrity in our relationships. When we evade accountability for our actions, we jeopardize the well-being of those who depend on us. It demonstrates a lack of commitment to self-improvement and personal development, hindering our ability to adapt and contribute positively in our relationships.
To summarize, a failure to grow and be accountable for our actions makes us unreliable and stagnant, rendering us unable to evolve and fulfill our responsibilities effectively. To be dependable and valuable to others, embracing responsibility and learning from our mistakes is not just important, but the very foundation of what it means to be a mature person.
There not many rules to entry.
1) All entries must be "Bikini" "Trunks/Speedos without out a top(bra)" are not considered a Bikini.
2) A "Mankini" will be considered for Doms and Switches.
3) Entries should be made in the form of a photo included in a comment under this blog.
4) Photo's do need to show the bikini but do not need to show faces or distinguishing marks like tattoos maybe covered
5) Points will be given for Style, Cheekiness and Daring
6) Nastiness, Argument will lead to Disqualification. Although friendly bitchiness is to be expected.
7) The the author of this blog and these rules, my decision is final.
8) As this is the first of it's kind additions to the rules can be put in the comments and will be considered by me.
9) Winners will be chosen each Saturday 12am UK time, The final will be on the 30 August and the winner will be the best of all the entries.
10) The winner has to pay the Master of the choice the prize they expected to get for wining.
I said the same naïve things throughout the years as I explored new kinks.
Fast forward to the present. I joined OwnedFags at the same time I joined other sites looking to fulfill a specific need. I assumed the tip transfer system here was similar to the tips I sent to Men on the video performance sites. Stupid, stupid, stupid! 😂 Age does not guarantee insight or wisdom. Sending 10 tips to a stranger felt like a big deal to me. I did not have good experiences and was 30 minutes away from deleting this account until I took a chance on the one Man who didn't take advantage of me as a newbie. It's unfortunate that we're not still together but I'm still here and learning from my current owner, The MasterOfAll.
It is common for people to take a step back and dedicate a portion of their time to self reflection at the beginning of a new year.
As opposed to making that process coincident with the Earth completing yet another boring loop around the Sun, I like to entertain such thoughts closer to my birthday instead (the 5th of April), which seems like a much better occasion and excuse to celebrate and look back.
By the time I turn thirty seven next week, I will have been a member of this site for almost three years, and I think that it is fair to say that this site has changed me; not in a drastic, or in a bad way. But the more we grow, the more we find ourselves wanting to learn and experience new things, for which change is usually a suitable mechanism to go through.
This has always been a trait of mine, also in my personal and my professional life: I do not like stagnation and I do not do well staying at idle over extended periods of time.
My time in OF has not been any different.
When I first joined, I found myself surrounded by people who, for the first time, understood a very personal part of me that I had rarely shown to anyone else.
I would say that my communication style back then was certainly more assertive, if not borderline aggressive. Perhaps under the misconception (unfortunately shared by many) that such were the tools and characteristics of Dominants.
Being, at the time, surrounded by a number of very successful Alphas with a clear bias towards leather, boots worshiping, or pain-play (kinks which were not particularly high up on my list of preferences, or not as high as they were in theirs, at least), made me question my approach to domination compared to theirs.
I was still feeling a sense of belonging, but there were very significant differences between us that I struggled to reconcile.
Yet, these guys managed to pique my interest on a continued basis, and even brought a competitive side out of me, wanting me to do better within the scene. And the ability to motivate others is something that I will always admire in people.
The chat room was a fundamental tool for me to gain perspective. I found myself chatting with other users for hours, subs and Doms alike, getting to know them better, appreciating the nuances of their dynamics, learning about what made them tick, getting insights into their psyche, and eventually bounding with them.
And, as I learnt more from them and about them, I also learnt more about myself: what fascinated me the most about this site was and will always be the human interactions.
It is not about sums of money, it is not about the rankings, it is not about sex; it is about building trusting relationships:
With my fellow Doms, because they are individuals sharing a rather unique and uncommon kink with me.
And with subs, because the unquestioning obedience that most of us seek comes from building trust and developing relationships, rather than from proclaiming a title and dictating rules.
And, as it happens, I have always been good and thoroughly enjoyed building relationships.
I did not need the gear, I did not need the aggressiveness and, for what is worth, I did not even need a face. I just had to continue exploring the beauty of human interactions and their multiple facets to find my place.
As a wise submissive from this site said once (yes, there are A LOT of smart, incredibly intelligent, and wise submissives around): the rest are nothing more than tools to “lubricate” such relationships.
Fast-forward a couple of years, my approach has not changed much ever since that initial realisation. What has drastically changed is who I choose to cultivate those relationships with, and how much energy I opt to invest in each of them.
Arguably, it is a matter of deciding “whether if the juice is worth the squeeze”. And if you think I am talking about cash, think again; subs and Doms can offer a lot more than that.
I have significantly reduced my interactions in the chat room, I have not made as much contributions to the site as I used to, but I am still enjoying it, having fun and I plan to continue celebrating birthdays as a member of Submit for years to come.
I would urge you to dwell and dig deeper too. Open up (not only sexually, but also mentally), make your dynamics varied, get creative.
Transactional interactions can be fun, but they are usually short-lived.
As I often tell my subs: in a few years time, you will not remember the individual tributes you received or made, but you will certainly cherish the way some of them made you feel and the interactions that you had the opportunity to share along the way.
It wore its cage last week and offered its service to an Alpha who grabbed its useless junk and demanded to see it, once stripped he punched the cage and laughed at it and walked away saying he wanted a proper man to serve him
Last Thursday it was in the wood again and saw two Alpha's chatting, it went to secluded part in the bushes and knelt down. The Alphas followed, they didn't speak to it, just puled their hard cocks out and grabbed the back of its head, once they had bother cocks f****d into its mouth, they again ignored it, played with each others tits and kissed each other. The only time they took any interest in it was when they were near to shoot their loads and held its head in place making it to swallow. Once finished they zipped up and walked away. It thanked them and stayed on its knees only they had left. They completely ignored it throughout. The humiliation on both times it made it feel good and just how a faggot should be treated by Alpha's it felt it had served as best at it could but to an Alpha not good enough!
There is a lot to learn but kneeling, showing respect and thanking Alpha's for any tiny bit of humiliation a faggot receives is a good start!
Is there anything like the rush of tributing your Master?
That moment when you give some of the money you have worked hard to earn to a man better than yourself.
That moment when you acknowledge that just by being the man He is, He is more deserving that you are.
This is not a transaction; you are not buying anything; you are merely showing the respect that is due by tipping.
When you tribute your Master, you must do it selflessly, sacrificially, unconditionally.
You are showing your adoration for the Man you place above yourself, not paying for a service.
You have accepted your place as a cash fag and you humbly bestow your money to a man better than you will ever be.
Master deserves your respect, Master deserves your love, Master deserves you putting His needs before your own.
Give up your daily take-away coffee; this money is much better used by Him.
Give up a meal once a week; this money is much better used by Him; spend the time contemplating all that He is.
Give up a night at the cinema or a new pair of jeans; this money is much better used by Him.
You are a fag; you exist to serve real men, you exist to be used, you exist to worship, you exist to tribute.
There is no better feeling than when you know you have made His life better. You can take pride in the fact that your loss was his gain, your pain was His joy.
You were born to serve, you were born to be used, you were born to worship, you were born to tribute.
This is who you are. You are a fag; Master’s cash fag.
Accept it and find deep contentment. Accept it and become at one with who you were always were.
It’s time to tribute, fag.
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